Expat Guide to Chinese New Year Red Packets (Ang Baos) in Singapore
Chinese New Year (CNY) is one of the most important cultural celebrations in Singapore, and as part of the festivities, one of the most beloved traditions is the giving of red packets (also called Ang Baos), which are typically filled with money. For expats living in Singapore, understanding how much money to put in a red packet can be a bit tricky, as it’s important to follow cultural norms and show respect while also considering your relationship with the recipient. Here’s a helpful guide to help you navigate this important CNY tradition.
1. What Are Red Packets (Ang Baos)?
Red packets are envelopes filled with money that are given during Chinese New Year as a symbol of good luck, prosperity, and blessings. The red color is believed to ward off evil spirits and bring good fortune. The amount of money inside the packet is symbolic, and there are certain customs and etiquette associated with it.
2. General Guidelines for How Much to Put in a Red Packet
The amount you put inside a red packet is important, as it conveys well-wishes for the recipient, and different amounts are traditionally given depending on the relationship between you and the recipient.
2.1 Avoid Unlucky Numbers
Numbers to Avoid: In Chinese culture, certain numbers are considered unlucky because their pronunciation is associated with negative meanings. Avoid these numbers when filling red packets:
4 (四): The number 4 sounds like the word for "death" (死), so it’s generally avoided.
0 (零): The number 0 symbolizes nothingness or emptiness, which is also considered inauspicious.
Lucky Numbers: The most common lucky numbers are:
8 (八): This is the most favored number because it sounds like the word for "prosperity" (發, pronounced “fa”).
6 (六): The number 6 sounds like "liu" (流), meaning smooth or easy, signifying a smooth year ahead.
9 (九): This number sounds like "jiu" (久), which means long-lasting or eternal, symbolizing longevity.
2.2 Red Packet Amounts Based on Relationship
For Close Family (Parents, Spouses, Children):
Amount: Between S$20 to S$100 or more, depending on your financial situation and closeness.
Explanation: For your children or close relatives, giving a higher amount reflects your love, care, and best wishes for their future. For example, parents may give their children more, and it is common to give larger amounts to elders as a sign of respect.
For Extended Family (Aunts, Uncles, Cousins):
Amount: Between S$10 to S$50.
Explanation: For more distant family members, the amount typically ranges from modest to moderate, depending on your relationship with them. For younger cousins or extended family, a typical amount is around S$20.
For Friends (especially Close Friends):
Amount: S$10 to S$50.
Explanation: For friends, a more modest red packet amount is suitable. If you’re very close to the person, you might give more, but generally, amounts under S$50 are common for friends.
For Colleagues or Business Associates:
Amount: S$8 to S$30.
Explanation: For colleagues or casual acquaintances, a more symbolic amount is appropriate. A typical amount could range from S$8 (a lucky number) to around S$30 for someone you work closely with. Higher amounts are less common unless you are very close.
For Domestic Helpers:
Amount: S$30 to S$100.
Explanation: Domestic helpers often receive higher red packets as a sign of respect and appreciation for their hard work. This amount can vary based on how long they have been employed with you.
For Service Staff (Taxi Drivers, Hotel Staff, etc.):
Amount: S$8 to S$20.
Explanation: It’s customary to give red packets to service staff during Chinese New Year as a token of appreciation. The amount is usually modest, but a small gesture can brighten their day and show respect for their work.
3. Special Considerations for Expats
3.1 Understanding the Importance of Red Packets in Singapore
In Singapore, the exchange of red packets is deeply rooted in tradition and is not just about the money. It’s a gesture of goodwill, and the amount is less important than the thought behind it. While it’s important to adhere to cultural expectations, don’t stress too much about the exact amount—what matters is the spirit of the gesture.
3.2 For Expats, What to Give
As an expat, the amount you give may vary depending on your relationship with the recipient. When in doubt, it’s better to give a little more than less.
If you don’t know what is customary, a safe and respectful amount would be S$8 to S$18 for acquaintances or colleagues, and S$20 to S$50 for closer relationships like close friends or family.
Keep in mind that "8" is particularly lucky, so red packets with an amount like S$28 or S$88 would be a good choice for close friends, colleagues, or even family.
3.3 Giving Ang Baos to Children
For children, giving red packets is one of the most exciting parts of Chinese New Year. If you are not a parent but want to participate, it's appropriate to give a small red packet to the children of your close friends or relatives.
The amount can range from S$10 to S$50, but children often enjoy receiving money regardless of the amount.
4. Tips for Presenting Red Packets
Presentation Matters: Always hand over the red packet with both hands as a sign of respect, especially when giving it to elders.
Avoid Giving Red Packets with Unclean Notes: Make sure the money inside the red packet is crisp and new. It’s considered bad luck to give old or wrinkled money.
No Opening in Front of the Giver: When receiving a red packet, it’s polite not to open it in front of the giver, as this could be seen as disrespectful.
Respect Local Customs: In some cases, it’s customary to address the recipient with a blessing, such as saying “Gong Xi Fa Cai” (恭喜发财) to wish them prosperity, or “Wan Shi Ru Yi” (万事如意) for everything to go smoothly.
As an expat in Singapore, giving red packets during Chinese New Year is a fun and rewarding way to engage with local traditions. While the amount of money inside the red packet should be thoughtfully considered based on your relationship with the recipient, the most important thing is to show respect and goodwill. Whether you give a small or large amount, your gesture will be appreciated and bring good fortune to those you share it with.
